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BDE Style

Confidence Without Cockiness

Men's Sexual Health Resources and Treatments For Sexual Performance

Welcome to BDE Style

Where men can connect and share their experiences with sexual performance, health, male enhancement, and tips on being the best version of themselves. We believe everyone should take control of their own sexual health and make informed decisions based on fact-checked and well researched information.

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About BDE Style

If you’re here, you’re either looking for advice on sexual health, male enhancement, or tips on becoming the best version of yourself or wanting to join our community of men where you can read and relate to experiences that us men have. Either way, you’re in the right place! 

My name is Rich and I'm the guy behind  I’m just a regular guy like any of you reading this who suffers from body confidence issues and health issues that affect us in the bedroom.


The idea behind this is to encourage and empower a mindset to help overcome those body confidence and health issues in and out of the bedroom. 

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The Mission

We want to celebrate positive masculine energy coding without being prideful or boastful. We want to move away from toxic, old-fashioned ideas of men needing to remain stoic and unemotional and instead promote access and openness when it comes to reaching out for assistance. Our philosophy is about supporting each other as we work towards overcoming our struggles together.


At BDE Style, we don't stand for false claims or marketing tactics. We are not like some of those culty forum guys who try to force you to follow their routines or buy their products instead of others. 


Our mission is to provide you with honest recommendations, helpful advice, scientifically-backed research, and real-world feedback from members just like you.

Sexual Health and Male Enhancement Product Reviews

We have personally used and reviewed these products to help men improve their sexual health and male enhancement. Below are in-depth guides on understanding and using these products. 

the phoenix review
The Phoenix for Men Review

The Phoenix is a revolutionary new device that uses acoustic waves to help improve sexual performance in men facing a decline or trouble "getting it up" in the bedroom. It is an at-home device that makes getting it up easier by reversing natural sexual decline that all men face eventually

the bathmate review
The Bathmate Review

The Bathmate is an easy-to-use penis pump that can help increase the size of your penis in both length and girth. It can also help men last longer in bed and anyone experiencing premature ejaculation.

the phallosan forte review
The Phallosan Forte Review

The Phallosan Forte is the ultimate lazy man’s penis enlargement device. It increases penis size in both length and girth through extension and resistance training just like a workout allowing increased blood flow into the penis and providing long-term results over time.

omgyes review

OMGYES is a platform that offers in-depth instructional videos and interviews with real women. It focuses on revealing techniques, experiences, and insights into female pleasure and sexuality. It's perfect for couples and individuals who want to improve in the bedroom with female pleasure. a

fleshlight review
The Fleshlight Review

The Fleshlight isn't just a sex toy… Fleshlight and its other products like Fleshjack and accessories were created to give men the best overall masturbation experience. Not only that but it can help men overcome Death Grip Syndrome as well as improve overall stamina in the bedroom. 

health labs review
Health Labs Review

With Health Lab's online ordering platform and convenient blood draw process; you get your results in 1 to 3 days without needing a referral from a doctor or prescription. Health Labs is an FDA-approved service who only partners with CLIA-certified laboratories throughout the U.S.

What is Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is the inability to have a firm enough erection in order to have sex. 

It is not uncommon for men to have trouble getting in up from time to time and shouldn't be of much concern. 

If it is an ongoing issue, however, ED can not only prevent you from having sexual intercourse but also be a sign of other serious underlying health issues. 

What is Sexual Decline

Sexual decline refers to a decrease in sexual desire, activity, or function that may occur as a person ages or due to various factors such as physical or mental health issues, stress, and relationship problems.


This decline can manifest in different ways, including reduced libido, difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection (erectile dysfunction), and challenges reaching orgasm.

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What Causes Sexual Decline

Sexual decline can happen because of many different reasons. They can be both emotional and physical. Here are a few of the most common causes of sexual decline in men:

  • Low testosterone levels  

  • Hormone imbalances

  • Stress and anxiety

  • Depression

  • Relationship problems

  • Drugs or alcohol

  • Parkinson's or Peyronies disease

Sound-wave Therapy For Men

A non-invasive medical treatment for sexual performance.

Sexual decline affects every man and that is a scientific fact.

Soundwave Therapy, or 'acoustic wave therapy' or the scientific name "Li-ESWT" is not a new treatment. Men have either gotten this done at a men's health clinic or were a part of a trial in the past 10-15 years. As technology continues to advance, we now have easier ways to get access to Li-ESWT treatment. 


Thanks to the company, Getmyphoenix, they created The Phoenix device, which uses the same clinical grade Li-ESWT technology found in men's health clinics across the country, giving us the world’s first at-home device to reverse sexual decline in men. 


Not only does it reverse the sexual decline in men, but it also helps to improve your sexual performance in the bedroom, making it easier for men to "get it up" and "keep it up".

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Resources & Support

We're not some generic website you see online when you Google "Can you increase the size of your penis?", or "How can I fix my erectile dysfunction?". We eliminate the time it would take for you to Google these topics by having everything you need to know in one place. 


We do our research by actually looking into medical journals and publications such as PubMed, ResearchGate, NCBI and many more resources that investigates men's sexual health, the decline, sexuality and other topics. Whether you're looking for an answer on how to treat the root cause of erectile dysfunction or just brushing up on your education on men's sexual health and performance, we'll point you in the right direction.


A lot of the topics we go over are covered in our blog section. Here are some resources and support for all men and individuals.

Latest Blog

Our blog is filled with knowledgeable and reliable content to help you feel comfortable discussing these topics.


We provide weekly articles on topics such as ED, Healthy relationships, sex education, and more. We strive to create an open dialogue around sexual health so that everyone feels comfortable seeking help and support. If you’re looking for advice or a new perspective, then you’ve come to the right place.

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Support Us

BDE Style is affiliated with some companies and products we use. Our mission is to help and support you by providing accurate information so that you can make better-informed decisions. 


I (Rich) personally use these products because I’ve spent years in the rabbit hole, just like you, trying to find out what works and what doesn’t. But, what I’ve learned is there is NO expert on these topics. It’s all still experimental or “anecdotal” based on your own experience, your body, and your health status. So, I can only suggest what has worked for me and what science and data suggests. 


With that being said, we spend a ton of time creating these guides doing incredibly long research, full reviews, updating the website, and providing help wherever we can. Your support will go towards covering costs such as research, surveys, and keeping this website platform available to the public. Thank you for your generous contribution!

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